unless prepared for the challenge of parenthood , don’t . Today I am convinced it’s harder than ever being a parent or a teacher . The risks to black youths has grown and prison awaits or gangs and crime. Change your mind, change your life . My ex wife is 6 feet 1 inch, I am 6 feet so my granddaughter will be tall for sure. At 3. 5 yes old. So lovely and smart. But being a mother or father is no joke . Thinking about it can be used to have a great day . Children cost money . Seriously though I am not in favor of kids before marriage either too much work.